How Social Media Shapes Our Need for Approval and Self-Worth

The Unexpected Challenge of Starting Bohemian Harmony

Who knew starting Bohemian Harmony would be so hard — or worse, that it would shake my soul in the process?

Don't get me wrong. Every product I've chosen reflects my values. They're beautiful, full of energy, and I genuinely believe they can bring light and healing into people's lives. But what I didn't anticipate was the steep mountain that is marketing and advertising.

I know — pretty silly, right? I trusted that the universe had my back, that things would unfold as they were meant to. But… the truth? That doesn't mean people will just find me and fall in love with what I offer. Not without effort.

Stepping Outside My Comfort Zone

So, I stepped into a world I usually avoid: social media.

I started making reels. They're not perfect. They may not align with every algorithm or trend, but I showed up. I made them, posted them, and learned along the way. It was uncomfortable, but I did it.

And honestly? That part was easier than what came next.

When Self-Doubt Creeps In

I check for views — I'm getting around 300 per reel. But the comments? Sparse. The likes? Few. Followers? Not really growing. That's when my old friend "Mrs. Self-Doubt" drops by.

She whispers things like:

"Just forget it."
"You can't do this."

And suddenly, I start to question everything. Am I worthy of success?

Why does the lack of interaction affect me so deeply? Why am I letting social media numbers define my worth?

It hit me — I was seeking external validation for something that should come from within.

I sell crystals and healing tools designed to inspire self-love and peace… yet here I was, forgetting to apply that same energy to myself.

A Shift in Perspective

Here's the thing about manifestation: it's not just about repeating affirmations or visualizing success. You have to believe it — fully, with coherence between your heart and mind.

And I had to be honest with myself: Was I truly aligned with my purpose, or just going through the motions while quietly doubting myself?

I realized I was still holding back. So I paused, breathed, and reminded myself of one key word:

YET.

Nobody knows who I am… yet.

Bohemian Harmony isn't widely known… yet.

But if I sit in self-doubt and fear, that's where the story ends. And I'm not done writing it.

This Is Bigger Than Me

This isn't just about a small business. This message is for anyone who's ever:

• Wondered why they weren't getting likes or attention on social media
• Doubted themselves before applying for a new job
• Questioned their worth after a breakup
• Felt invisible in a room full of people

From a young age, we're conditioned to seek external validation. But your truth, your value, your next step — that belongs to you. No one else.

So if you're doubting yourself today, hear this:

Your own validation is priceless.

Your journey is sacred.

You are allowed to believe in yourself — fiercely and unapologetically.

You've Got This

Whatever it is you're working on, hoping for, or healing through — know this: your worth isn't measured in metrics.

✨ Your journey is uniquely yours.
✨ You're allowed to take up space.
✨ Keep going, beautiful soul.

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